When I leave a meeting feeling dismissed or diminished, my instinct is to turn the discomfort inward. Is it me? Did I explain myself poorly? Am I missing something obvious? That reflexive self‑questioning is familiar to many educators and professionals—and it can quietly erode confidence over time.
Recently, instead of accepting that feeling and add it to my “need to improve” list, I chose to engage in reflective practice. Because the meeting was recorded, I used AI as an objective mirror. I asked Copilot to review the transcript and evaluate the interaction as if it were coursework: the leader assessed through a leadership lens, and the employee through the lens of professional and educational practice.
The outcome was clarifying. Copilot assigned a failing grade to the leader, citing behaviours such as critiquing the person rather than the ideas and undermining psychological safety—fundamental missteps in effective leadership. The employee’s actions, by contrast, were evaluated positively and supported with specific evidence from the conversation.
What mattered most wasn’t the grade itself (although I can make a clear connection with grades), but the process. Reflective practice grounded in evidence—not emotion—restored perspective. AI didn’t replace judgment; it supported it. And sometimes, learning confirms an essential truth: it really isn’t you.
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